is she that 'into you'????

Something dedicated to my PAI (AC)...

She's Just not that into You... I mean Me
The excuses… I’ve heard them all. Every time a friend says, “She
didn’t call”, “She’s too busy”, “She’s not ready for a relationship”
or “It’s bad timing”, I tell him one thing and one thing only… “She’s
just not that into you”.
Why is it then, that when I hear the same excuses I can’t convince
myself that she’s not that into me? I know if I were giving advice to
me, I would say… “Dude, she’s just not that into you” Seriously, if a
girl really likes you, she will make it happen, good or bad timing,
ready or not. If you have the girl who isn’t ready date … not that it
will end in a disaster, but the point is, she isn’t ready, it is bad
timing, yet she'll still make it happen, because she wants it to. So
these girls who are using this as an excuse are getting away with only
one thing… our feelings. Giving us false hope is not cool. In fact it
is the exact opposite of cool… it’s out right shitty. Do they realize
they are doing this to us? Do they think they are being kind by giving
us a glimpse of hope that we want to turn into a, dare I call it, a
relationship. We will sit and discuss these ladies, try to figure out
these ladies, and worst of all WAIT for these ladies. As if time is
really the issue. I have fallen for it once, maybe even twice…and I
will fall for it again, the only thing I can say to my friends, is
please slap some sense into me when you see me fall for “bad timing
girl”. “I like you but I’m not ready” can mean one thing. She just
likes the attention, it might be true, she might not be ready to date,
but tells you she likes you too keep you interested and her feeling
good about herself. You think; well she isn’t going around with
someone else, so it better be me. Well, it’s time to take charge.
Let’s have them wonder… “Is he, just not that into me?